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Recommended Books for Your Best Life

This set of 33 books and tools are here to help you become the entrepreneur you see yourself growing in your dreams. If you want to start a side hustle or boost your business, these are great ways to inspire, motivate and learn new mindset.

When you have an idea; where do you start? If you’re lying awake and searching the internet for answers, you’ve found the right place. I know I’ve been frustrated with my thoughts and why can’t I get past the repeating patterns that hold me back. If everything is going well in one area of your life, but your relationships suck, and you can’t figure it out, perhaps it’s a subconscious limiting belief. We’ve heard of the power of positivity, but f*ck that when you’re alone, tired and fed-up. I get it! You don’t want to hear about another gratitude journal or mindset reframing.

The 5 Second Rule: Mel Robbins is an inspiration and help along the entrepreneurial path. She is funny and poignant. There are always gems of wisdom that apply to REAL life! I recommend her to anyone who is seeking to become a better version of themselves. I often use her technics to move and take ACTION.

Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing. “Fate is how your life unfolds when you let fear determine your choices. A path of destiny reveals itself to you, however, when you confront your fear and make conscious choices.” ― Caroline Myss

The Art of Work: A Proven Path to Discovering What You Were Meant to Do. “I used to think that your calling was about doing something good in this world. Now I understand it’s about becoming someone good—and letting that goodness impact the world around you.” “the paradox of vocation. We think that passion comes first, that our desire is primary; but if we are truly called, the work always comes before we are ready. We will have to act in spite of feeling unprepared.” “The path to your dream is more about following a direction than arriving at a destination.” and this quote from Jeff is particularly helpful in understanding “Flow is the intersection of what you are good at and what challenges you—where difficulty and competency meet. When your competency exceeds the difficulty of a task, you are bored. And when the difficulty exceeds your competency, you are anxious.”
― Jeff Goins

RocketBook: The Best Digital Notebook Ever! I love this reusable erasable notebook and its capacity to send pages to any digital repository, Google Drive, Evernote, Email, OneDrive, and more all customizable through the free RocketWave App. After filling the whole notebook, you can microwave it and it will erase all the contents back to blank pages 5 times. Goes way beyond recycling and eco-conscious. Truly the best productive partner a women entrepreneur can have in her tools for success. You’ll be in tech envy when you see it in action for the first time. Plus the full set of erasable color pens completes the gratitude journal or project management needs. Think of the rich details your writing will bring. From clarity, continuity and accenting all your goals to bring them closer to fruition.
Rocketbook Everlast Reusable Smart Notebook, Executive Size

and Pilot FriXion Ball Erasable Gel Pens Fine Point (.7) 8-pk Pouch Black/Blue/Red/Pink/Purple/Orange/Lime/Brown Inks; Make Mistakes Disappear, No Need For White Out with America’s 1 Selling Pen Brand

The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level. “Criticism and blame are addictions. They are costly addictions, because they are the number-one destroyer of intimacy in close relationships.”
“Gradually I came to see that I was just worrying for the sake of choking the flow of positive energy in myself. Worrying was one way I was Upper-Limiting myself.” ― Gay Hendricks,

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert. She’s a fabulous writer and now she shares her amazing insights on facing fears and harnessing them toward your best creative life. I continually refer to this book in my moments of being stuck. I can usually flip open the book and find an incredible gem of wisdom that applies to achieving my goals and being okay with the messy process of living in this complicated FOMO age of social media and mediocre relationships. If you find your self going down a path where you’re not jumping out of bed in the morning with enthusiasm, then read Elizabeth Gilbert.

Calling in “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
― Marianne Williamson

Dear Lover: A Woman’s Guide To Men, Sex, And Love’s Deepest Bliss

Die Empty: Unleash Your Best Work Every Day by Todd Henry and creator of The Accidental Creative. A book and a podcast series which is invaluable for any creative, marketing, business savvy professional. I recommend all his books and free online resources. Herding Tigers listed further below is also a powerful and purposefully organized book for leadership put in practical and applicable terms.

Everything Is Here to Help You: A Loving Guide to Your Soul’s Evolutionby Matt Kahn. I’ve heard Matt speak in Denver and was quickly taken with his message about love and why things happen they way they do.

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)

When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times

Herding Tigers: Be the Leader That Creative People Need

The Eight Human Talents: Restore The Balance And Serenity Within You With Kundalini Yoga Kundalini Yoga is a great way to get your body and mind into shape. In The Eight Human Talents, Gurmukh gives you all the tools you need to increase your creativity, intuition, compassion, health, and prosperity. All you need is a belief in the possibility of change and a commitment of as little as three minutes a day. Perfect for busy yoga moms, self-starters, and women who seek better in their life.


The Four Desires by Rod Stryker When I was lost and wasn’t sure of where I was going in life after my divorce, I took quite a few weekend long workshops. My most impactful was also the most enduring. My copy of Rod Stryker’s book is well worn, dog eared, tabbed and referenced heavily. I originally purchased this at a long weekend immersion session with Rod at The Himalayan Institute in Honesdale PA. That was April 27th, 2012 almost exactly to the day 1 year before my near-death accident 4-28-13. The personal notes and guidance have been invaluable for cultivating the life of my dreams. I have been on this yoga enriched journey since 2003 when I was overweight, out of shape and with chronic back and wrist pain. Yoga began to bring me into shape, eliminate the pain and get strong. I attribute yoga and my daily practice to save me when I flew off the motorcycle at high speed. I’ve since learned how staying true to your desires serves not only in personal, but business life. It’s THE most valuable book I’ve listed here that will serve you toward gaining insight on your life’s purpose as well as meditation tools to help guide and shift inner clarity and bring calm when stress seeks to bring you down.  (click the book photo to order your copy)

The Four Desires Workbook I highly recommend getting The Workbook for ‘The Four Desires’. It’s a serious companion for creating a life of purpose, happiness, prosperity, and freedom.

High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way

If the Buddha Got Stuck: A Handbook for Change on a Spiritual Path “Staying loyal to your journey means you never abandon yourself by compromising your integrity or discounting your intuition or the signals that come from your body—the knot in the gut, emotional detachment, or loss of energy that signals something is amiss.” “Every time we open one door, we close another…. Yet we also need to remind our ego that love means letting go of our entrenched rituals, of comparing, of wanting life to stay the same…Entering a relationship and living in the heart of the Beloved means our life will change, our shells will crack open and we will never be the same again.”
― Charlotte Kasl

Meditations on Intention and Being. Daily Reflections on the Path of Yoga, Mindfulness and Compassion. I love this wonderful resource! 365 inspirational daily reflections: This book helps everyone from experienced yogis to novices seeking a little tranquility—to fundamentally reconsider their relationships with their minds, bodies, and the universe around them through self-reflection. In 7 chapters you’ll explore Effortlessness, Nonviolence, The Spirit of Practice, Mindfulness, Compassion and Loving-kindness, Equanimity and Joy, and Intention and Being. This is a great tool to effect positive changes in your life!

The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship: A Toltec Wisdom Book. “If you take your happiness and put it in someone’s hands, sooner or later, she is going to break it. If you give your happiness to someone else, she can always take it away. Then if happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love, you are responsible for your happiness.” ― Miguel Ruiz

The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8 AM) The most recent influential book on my shelf. Actually, I bought the Audible version so I could listen to it on my commute. I highly recommend this series of books to transform your daily habits toward your success. Not just for business but also in cultivating relationships with yourself, your boss, loved ones and your new life. Because thing will really start to shift once you put this into practice for 42 days. It’s how you become a wealthy millionaire.

The Miracle Morning for Transforming Your Relationship: How to Create an Unshakable LOVE and Unleashed PASSION that Lasts a Lifetime!

A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles” (Paperback) Get to Know Yourself and have compassion “when we think we have things already figured out, we’re not teachable. Genuine insight can’t dawn on a mind that’s not open to receive it.”  “How a person seems to show up for us is intimately connected to how we choose to show up for them.” ― Marianne Williamson

Notes from the Universe on Abundance – Oracle Cards by Mike Dooley. Because I didn’t get to print my version first. No seriously his messages are powerful and when you’re in the doldrums they’ll ALWAYS pick you up, dust you off and set your whole being straight. Soothing messages and you can work them into your daily routine for positive affirmations during your Miracle Morning. It only takes 7 minutes a day at a minimum.

Notes from the Universe on Love & Connection: A 60-Card Deck

The Teachings of Abraham Well-Being Cards This beautiful card deck encompasses gems of wisdom gathered from the Abraham-Hicks teaching on practical spirituality. 60 cards to choose from each day as an oracle and message on how to accentuate your natural state of well-being.

The Upanishads, 2nd Edition, illumined sages share flashes of insight, the results of their investigation into consciousness itself. “You are what your deep, driving desire is. As your desire is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.” ― Brihadaranyaka Upanishad. What is the root of desire?

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition). This is powerful information for women to understand the male side of relationships and how to cultivate a spiritual connection with your current partner or future lovers.

What to Do When It’s Your Turn(and it’s Always Your Turn) “Doing what you’ve been doing is going to get you what you’ve been getting.” “The easiest thing is to react. The second easiest thing is to respond. But the hardest thing is to initiate.” “The reason they want you to fit in is that once you do, they can ignore you.” – Seth Godin

You Are a Badass®: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life “If you’re serious about changing your life, you’ll find a way. If you’re not, you’ll find an excuse.” “You are responsible for what you say and do. You are not responsible for whether or not people freak out about it.” “What other people think about you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.”
― Jen Sincero

You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For (Internal Family Systems) has been an invaluable book to give deep education about the early development of subconscious and how it affects our relationships today. Goes way beyond typical therapy and helps by leaps and bounds when on the path of self-development and easing tensions within yourself and loved ones.

The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles. The subtitle doesn’t even begin to say how helpful this book in understanding how one arrives at a fulfilling and purpose driven life. So many rich examples of people doing good things in the world and the meandering path that took them there.